We all want to be there for our queer friends. Something that is exhausting for us to hear is, "I don't understand. Can you explain your whole identity to me?!.... AGAIN?" What does non-binary really mean? What is gender non-conforming? And isn't they a plural pronoun? In this gentle and disarming guide, a real-life genderqueer writer unpacks all your burning questions in a fun, visual way. This book is wonderful for self-exploration, as well as a tool for your toolkit if you are trying to grasp basic concepts about your genderqueer friend, family member, or co-worker!